Scripting as a Second Language

One of the unusual features of autism is a verbal child's ability to script, or recite portions of books and videos.  As a second language teacher, I have been interested in how to encourage use of the first language (scripting) to build a second (communicative speech).  So far we have had some success paying attention to what our Song likes to sing and recite, and speaking to her with phrases from her scripts to gain attention and cooperation.  For instance, Song does not respond to her name, but responds to "ready, get set, go! " to gain her focus and get her to run our direction.  She also will fill in the blanks with the either/or song from her Richard Scarry video.  We can ask is she wants in or out, up or down, or if she is happy or sad  by using the intonation from the video, and she will verbally respond.  Using scripts she knows in real life contexts has helped her bridge into more communicative speech.  Last week she saw my husband and I holding hands and commented, "Happily ever after- The end."

I am contributing this blog to aid those who support families with children on the spectrum.  These are thoughts from my experience and may or may not work with your particular situation.  I have found, though, certain things I wish others had known along the way...

My Top Ten Ways to help a Mother with Children on the Spectrum:

Number 1:  Ask, "How can I help?"  This allows mom to show you the best ways.

Number 2:  Ask, "What would you love to have?"  This allows your gift to be well received by all.

Number 3:  Offer to assist with a routine chore that is not easy for mom to accomplish (I.e.  wash dishes, clean car, go grocery shopping, do laundry, have house cleaned)

Number 4:  Offer to take siblings on an outing.  Mom often feels guilty for them.

Number 5:  Offer to pay for skilled child care so mom can exercise, sleep, go on a date with her spouse, etc.

Number 6:  Offer to take pets for a walk or to the groomer.  Mom feels guilty for them, too.

Number 7:  Tell mom she's doing a good job.

Number 8:  Ask how you can support her efforts.  This may mean dietary options, sign language, sensory environment, etc.

Number 9:  Understand when mom can't find the emotional energy for an outing/event.

Number 10:  Demonstrate unconditional love.